Basics of Married Life

Marriage is a bond, which a husband and wife ties for the life time. In fact in Indian marriages, the Indian bride and groom are required to keep the sanctity of the bond alive for seven lives. The marriage bond is said to be purest of all the relations that a human being shares in his life. It is actually the thread, which binds two lives into one, like it is called one soul in two bodies. Marriages in India, have always been held at great importance and utmost preference is given, when it comes to keeping alive the strength of marriage as a bond. The people of India, have always been finicky about making their marriage work for the life time. They believe in putting the best of their efforts, for keeping the sacredness of their marriage alive.

For maintaining and sustaining the bond of marriage, efforts from both the sides i.e. the bride and the groom both have to be consistent in putting in the elements of love, care and understanding to keep the marriage as a bond growing. It is really not easy to spend one’s full life with a different person altogether. It is in fact like the beginning of a new life, where the bride and groom have to instill their life with a lot of ingredients to keep the wheels of their married life rolling. Marriage is not a joke, a phrase, which every married Indian bride and groom must have been hearing from their childhood, is actually the truth. Indian grooms and brides, from the very beginning of their life are taught about the importance of the marriage and that they are bound to keep the journey of their marriage moving together and happily.

Like the life of a human being is based on certain things. There are few factors without which a person cannot even think about his surveillance. These factors vary from person to person and the supporting elements, which rule and define his respective lifestyle. But in case of a married, there are few common elements, which are also called as the wheels of a married life, which are responsible for the entailment of a successful and a happy married life. Though there are many other factors, which adds on to the sustainability of a wedding life, but the four most common factors, which are mostly held responsible for the proper grooming of a contented matrimony of a bride and groom. These are love, understanding, care and trust. Following is a brief description of each of the factor, as in how they help in covering a smooth married life:

• Love: Love is the most important ingredient of a married life. Especially, in case of Indian weddings, where most of the marriages are arranged, the Indian bride and groom have to invest a lot of love, on the basis of which other wheels of the married life come into existence.

• Understanding: The Indian brides and groom, are always advised to have a healthy understanding between each other. Because, if the wedding life of the couple is instilled with the factor of understanding, then the inscription of the misunderstanding and the reasons of fight becomes less and they are able to lead a normal married life.

• Trust: Faith or trust is the factors, which forms the basis of any relation and so it is required in a married life. In case of Indian weddings, the bride and groom have no other option than to trust each other, to make the journey of their marriage moving on the smooth tracks. Because, of the arranged marriages, it is very important for the Indian grooms and brides to build the factor of trust in their relationship. Also, trust is something, which takes years to build, but if once broken can lead to great discrepancies.

• Care: Love and care seems to be synonym in case of marriages, but the bride and groom should make sure that the use of both these elements is done in a proper manner. Because, excess of anything can lead to increase in expectations, which if left unfulfilled results in differences and misunderstandings.

Thus, one can say, that the proper and defined implementation of all the above elements can result in the smooth and balanced movement of all the wheels of a happy married life.

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